Further Evidence that Girls Love Scumbags

Often these days, I do things without any planning and without thinking about it at all. I think this is pretty common when you have practiced something to the point where it is fully internalized. Frame control and leading interactions are two things I do these days without even thinking about it, even at work

Brad P's Pickup Video

Holy crap, this thing is over the top amazing!!! It is raw and unfiltered.
I have literally never seen anything like it. It will MELT YOUR FACE OFF

This video hasn't been shown to the public, and will be shown LIVE ONLY on 4 occassions before being DESTROYED. It will NOT be available on the web.



To see this incredible video, get yourself to one of these conferences:

New York City
Friday May 28th: Brad and Glenn will both be speaking, starting at 12 noon. http://www.globalpickupconference.com/

New York City
Saturday June 5th: Brad and Glenn start around 6pm.
http://www.datingconference2010.com/

West Coast locations
To Be Announced

LR: Tag Team Action

I grew up in the days of professional wrestling, and my personal favorites were always the tag team matches... the matches where you have two wrestlers working together as a team to defeat their competition. Those matches always had the most action and drama, because the course of the match could change at any time and there were so many limbs and body parts flying around everywhere

Another blast from my past, the movie Swingers with Vince Vaughn and Jon Favreau is one of my personal favorites of all time. When I landed in Los Angeles this past Saturday morning to attend the Pickup Mansion Graduation Party at a house in the Hollywood Hills, I was immediately reminded of a quote from that movie:

Rob: I can't believe how cute the girls in this city are
Mike: I know. It's like the opposite of inbreeding. The hottest 1 percent from around the world migrate to this gene pool

Feeling inspired by the Swingers theme, my first night in town a bunch of the Pickup Mansion graduates (myself included) and LA Phil headed out to The Dresden room to see Marty & Elaine. It was an incredible weekend... the party was amazing with two live bands, I had some great cuisine LA style (out of a truck), and caught up with old friends. There was also wrestling. And tag team action

Early on Saturday, I head out to lunch and then for a few beers with three of my friends (all Pickup Mansion graduates) and a girl that one of the guys picked up awhile ago. She is in town for the weekend, and is immediately being openly flirtatious. The whole time we are out, we are all talking about sex and sharing sex stories and jokes. When we get back to the house, she locks herself in my buddies room and texts him saying that all of the sex talk has gotten her so turned on, and she was afraid of what she would do if she was alone with all of us guys and needed to cool down

Sounds like an invitation to me... so I discuss with my buddy, and we agree that we are going to try to tag team her. It's really important to communicate with your wing in the field, but even more important when it comes to sharing a girl because things can get out of hand if anybody feels that boundaries have been crossed. Case in point: the two of us had tried to escalate a girl of mine in the past, and she freaked out and got pissed off at me and would never talk to me again.

When this girl came out of the bedroom, I was in the living room in a skype video call with a hot asian chic I've been seeing for awhile. I travel to Asia regularly, and we hook up whenever I'm in town and occasionally have some skype video sex. Since I travel a lot, I've been experimenting with having girls masturbate on skype for me for awhile now. Maybe I'll write a post on that in the future...

This girl sees me chatting with the hot asian, and comes over to see what's going on. I had just gotten the hot asian girl naked and she was showing me her tits when this girl walked up, so I introduced them and said she wanted to see too. Pretty soon they are chatting with each other and showing each other their tits and talking about how they want to bite each others nipples. Now, there was no way this was going to happen by itself. I kept feeding this girl things to type to the hot asian and led the whole thing. For better or worse, it ended there because our taxi arrived and we all head off to the Dresden Room. I have to admit I was torn... lesbian sex show or Marty & Elaine... damn Hollywood for making me want to get the full Swingers experience!

The next afternoon after I wake up, I pull out my laptop and chat with the hot asian about what happened yesterday. It is early morning for her and she is still in bed. When I am visiting, I will usually wake her up with some oral sex and then have her go down on me before having sex. I talk with her about how I would like to wake her up like that, and then I call the other girl over and have her start chatting again. They immediately jump back to the chat from the day before, telling each other how cute they are.

I feed the girl things to type that I know will ellicit the desired response from the hot asian, and very quickly the hot asian suggests that this girl suck my cock while she watches. Essentially what I did is I planted the seed of the idea to the asian chic earlier, and then told the girl next to me that the asian wanted to see her suck my cock. Then when the asian chic gave this girl instructions, I did the only thing I could do at that point... I took off my pants and put my cock in front of her face. We are both laying on a giant lovesac with the laptop, with another guy in the room, and she hesitates, takes another look at the hot asian, and starts going to work. She was trying to put on a show and was doing a damn good job of it. While this is going on, I'm typing to the asian girl telling her what to do and I get her naked and touching herself for us to watch while this girl goes down on me. At this point, I call over to the other guy in the room and ask him to go fetch our buddy who this girl is here to see, who is still asleep. He comes down a few minutes later and joins in on the action. For a bit, we had this girl taking turns going down on us and then we fill this girl from both ends while the hot asian masturbates on the laptop screen. Just like the tag team matches on tv, there were limbs and body parts flying everywhere

The really beautiful thing is that after this was over, this girl says "Wow, that asian girl is really incredible, she made this whole thing happen and just told me to do things and I did it." When she said that, my buddies and I all gave each other a knowing nod of the head, because we all knew that I was the puppet master that really made it all happen

That night at the Pickup Mansion graduation party, I pulled Brad P aside and told him what had happened earlier that day. He gave me a big smile and said "You get an A!" haha

Blog Introductions

These are some of my favorite pickup blogs. These guys are all really good, and also happen to be good friends of mine. They are all also coaches on the 30/30 Club, a system for learning game from guys that get laid and know what they are doing


LA Phil has coached along side Brad P more than anyone else. His blog is great for short guys, because LA Phil is one of the shortest Pickup Coaches in the world

Hyper has taught tons of workshops, and has quite a bit of game, even at the tender age of 23. I think being that young makes PU a bit harder. Any girls 24 and up are trying to rule you out right away. Hyper has a lot of coaching knowledge, and there's a pretty interesting video on his site. Hyper and I have had some good times in NYC

Scotty is basically Bradp's 'speed demon' guy. He seduces women in 15 minutes or less. But....Brad tells him to chill his game out for workshops so students can learn from it better. Scotty has balls of steel

Jake P's blog has cool pictures and videos on it, and includes a lot of his wild LRs. I just got back from a week in Canun for Spring Break with Jake, and I swear this guy is out of control amazing

Brad P is the man. I have seen this guy do crazy things... fingering a girl on the street 15 seconds after meeting her, pulling girls into bathrooms regularly... crazy. And he just happens to be the most amazing coach ever

How to Learn Pickup (and everything else)

When developing any new skillset people will often ask "How long before I get good?" I find this popular Zen story to be a great reminder that I should enjoy the journey and appreciate each new lesson (I copied this from a random website)


BALANCING EFFORT AND PATIENCE
There is a story about a young man in Japan who wanted to be the greatest martial artist of the land. He thought that to reach this goal, he must study with the best instructor, who lived many miles away.

One day he left home to go study with this great Zen teacher. After travelling for several days, he arrived at the school and was given an audience with the teacher. "What do you wish to learn from me?" the master asked.
"I want you to teach me your art and help me become one of the best martial artists in the country," the young man replied. "How long must I study?"
"Ten years at least," the master answered.
The guy thought, ten years is a lot of time. I want to get his done sooner than that. I don't have that much time. Certainly if I try harder I can complete this task quicker. So he asked the master, "What if I studied twice as hard as everyone else? How long would it take then?"
"Then it would take twenty years," replied the master.
The guy thought, 'That's even longer! I don't want to spend twenty years learning something. I've got other things to do with my life. Certainly if I tried really hard I could learn it much quicker'.
So the student asked again, "What if I practised day and night with all my effort, then how long would it take?"
"Thirty years," was the master's response.
The young student became confused and wondered why the master kept telling him it would take longer.
He asked the master "How is it that each time I say I will work harder, you tell me that it will take longer?"
"The answer is simple. With one eye focused on your destination, there is only one eye left with which to find the way," the master said.

(Another way of saying this is, "With half your attention on your goal, you only have the other half to focus on the work." Any endeavor takes effort, but it also takes patience. If we have one without the other, we get off balance. with only effort, we try and try but get frustrated when we do not see results as fast as we would like. Or we get burned out and tired very quickly. With only patience and no effort, we never really put our full attention to a task. We never give it the commitment we need. This is as true with school work as it is with a meditation practice as it is with sports. in the story, the master knew that the student had enough effort; what he needed was to balance that effort with patience.)


Brad phrases this differently - It will take as long as it takes. There are no shortcuts

Brad P's 30/30 club is setup to provide a structure and focus over the course of a year to make the learning process as efficient as possible

Brad P's Pickup Mansion

I spent a year living in Brad P's Pickup Mansion in Hollywood, California. I learned an amazing amount about pickup, relationships, and myself. As a result of the ongoing coaching and the total number of approaches I was doing, I actually got pretty good and now I'm doing what I can to help out others


The last workshop of the original mansion guys was crazy! As Brad described it:
"We had big titty chicks in the hot tub, 2 after-parties, multiple bathroom pulls, one guy got puked on by a chick....like EXPLOSION VOMIT....we hung out with rock stars, Nomad touched the biggest tits i ever seen in my life, i got some crazy videos, i almost got kicked out of 2 different clubs...and there was also lots of sex going on....and fingering. "


Here is the review of the Pickup Mansion that I posted on various forums. It is a great program:

9 months ago, I moved into Brad P's Pickup Mansion in Los Angeles. In that time, I've made some great advances in my game and done some things that a year ago would have been impossible for me:

•I went to a party at the Playboy Mansion, made out with several women, and then fingered one in the zoo and brought her home.
•I had sex with a fetish model on the leather chair in the piercing studio where she worked. Mid coitus, she remembered that we were being filmed by the security cameras… so I fucked her harder.
•I fucked a girl in the back seat of a friends car, while he was driving
•For the first time in my life, I had sex with 4 women in one week (and fingered a 5th.)
•And more…

A little over a year ago, a friend of mine showed me a book called the Adventures of Brad P (I think now called Diary of a Pickup Artist.) Once I started reading it, I couldn't put it down! There was a bit of skepticism ("Is this for real?!?! How can he fuck so many girls so quickly?!") My game pretty much sucked at the time (my first cold approach happened just a few months earlier.) I eventually signed up for a weekend workshop with Brad P and was convinced that the stories were true and learned that Brad P was an excellent teacher. At that same workshop, as we were discussing my future goals, Brad mentioned his ideas for the Pickup Mansion. The idea was that a few guys would live in Hollywood for a year, and focus on improving their game under the tutelage of Brad P and his coaches, Jake P, LA Phil, Glenn P, Bobby, Hyper, and Scotty Flamingo.

I immediately knew it was the right thing for me because I wanted to get really good as fast as possible. A year long structured program with the #1 Pickup Artist in the world sounded like it fit the bill, and I knew that if I could make it happen that I had to do it. It was a challenge to get here... First off, I had a job. In another city! But if you want something bad enough… so I plotted, and eventually spoke with my management team and made a proposal that I would work remotely for a year. When it became evident that I would probably just quit if the answer was no, they agreed (I still can't believe it!)

So I sold most of what I owned, packed the rest into my car, and then drove for 4 days to Los Angeles.
It was me and three other guys in the house, which has a pretty awesome location and is all pimped out. Every girl that has come back to the house has said something to the effect of, "Is this for real?" or "Am I dreaming?" or just simply, "Wow!" There is a fire pit, an amazing video/sound system, and a living room modeled after the lobby of a famous hotel. It is definitely impressive.

We started out that first weekend with a normal Brad P workshop, going out Friday and Saturday night with coaches and then spending Sunday analyzing the weekend. We also did some team building and trust building exercises to help us grow as house mates and friends. Over the course of the past 9 months, we have done these workshops every month, with regular check ups from Brad and other coaches. The training is tailored to each person, so we get individual attention and 1-on-1 time to work through any questions or sticking points we have.

One of the first nights in LA, Brad had a couple local promoters drive us around and show us where the best local clubs and bars were, and highlight which places were the best on any given night. We learned which clubs had the hardest door discretion, which ones were free and which ones had cover charges, and which type of people preferred each venue. Some clubs were great for goth girls, some for hot OC girls, and some for UCLA sports girls. Coming fresh to LA, it was awesome to be able to get my finger on the pulse of the city in so little time. Over the months, the promoters have helped us get into the newest hot venues and brought us to some great parties

Unlike a normal public workshop, month after month we are with the same guys, so we get to learn from not only the coaches, but the breakthroughs the other Pickup Mansion guys are making. And since the group of us are all focused on getting good with women, there is always somebody to go out with or to work through tactics or strategy. We've all become pretty good at winging. Also unlike normal public workshops, we are building on the previous month each time we get together with the coaches. Because we are all working together for a year, we are able to focus on bigger issues and concepts, such as night life social hierarchies, group control theory, calibration, reading girls buying temperature, deep seated inner game issues, working through logistics, relationship management, fashion, body language and voice tone, repertoire, and more. I've seen Brad work on phone game issues real time with one of the other mansion guys, and he gave me feedback when I pulled a girl back to a hotel room that he was sleeping in (perhaps a world's first coached escalation! Haha!)

Today, I am regularly telling friends and coworkers "I love my life!" I've made such incredible advances in my game, such that things I saw Brad P do a year ago are now fairly normal. I've pickup up girls from grocery stores, shopping malls, airports, airplanes, bars, and dance clubs. I used to keep track of how many girls I made out with in clubs, but I have lost count. I've made some of the best friends I've ever had. I've had more sex with hotter girls than at any other time in my life. My balls have grown orders of magnitude, my leadership skills have improved, my dominance has improved, and my presence and confidence with women is through the roof.

This has been the best training program I've ever experienced, and has had an amazing impact on my life. The continual coaching and constant feedback has had a tremendous impact on my game and my life. I can't recommend this program highly enough